I said " You walked out on this marriage for 6 mos., one day of forgiving and tears doesn't fix it - I want it fixed if it can be but it won't do anything but get worse if we ignore how we got here."
Exactamundo, Over. Spot on.
Yes except you're still pursuing her.
Here's my revision:
" You walked out on this marriage for 6 mos., one day of forgiving and tears doesn't fix it - you had a chance to fix this but you kept ignoring what I told you to do, you kept disrespecting me, now it's too late for YOU. How many chances did you think I was going to give you?"
Stop pursuing her.
Stop telling her what she has to do to fix things.
If she really wants to fix things, she will ask you what she needs to do, otherwise it's still you pursuing her.
Until she does that, you have no chance with her. Detach, let go, move on.
