She did throw the - " You said I could talk to him" @ me.
I said" Please repeat the WHOLE statement for me b/c what I said was- It ends now, somewhere down the road if you bump into him or talk to him I could probably get past it, that's not now."
She also said that the S with him was actually the LOW point in the relationship!
Well, Sandi makes a good point about this and I now think she is correct. If you leave any loophole available for contact with OM, the WAW will use it to get a fix. Sounds like what your W did. The spirit of your boundary was clear, IMO, but yeah...if there was a loophole, she found it and took advantage. She's not ready to work on the M apparently. Time for tough love, OB. Greek
Did you hear that, the sex with the OM was the low point in her relationship with him, AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW that's so sweet, tell her you're falling in love with her all over again after hearing that the sex with the other guy wasn't that good. Be a rock for her sport, validate those feelings, give her a hug, tell her the next OM, things will be better for her ;-)
