Who cares if your W is impressed with the woman you choose to date? Why does that matter? Do you think she worries if you are impressed by the men she dates? Clearly she does not.
I have a sinking feeling your new found dedication to finding a new job and starting a business is all to impress your W. Is that true?
And so what if your W is not impressed with your choice in a woman and who you CHOOSE to date. If she verbalizes that to you say "you are correct, my new GF doesn't make as much money as you but do you think I care about that when we are rocking each other's worlds?" then wink at your W and carry on.
I have to agree with SM. Become an ass. Become an arrogant prick in a comedic fashion. If for nothing else the entertainment value would be worth it. So far everything you have tried has not even come close to working... so, why not?
I have read about this. Cocky and funny attitude. I have read it works like a charm. I am just not very good at it. I would have to hire Steve as a coach to do this properly. Dang he is good.
Kevin
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Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...