Hope you, your h and the kids are well and you all had a happy Christmas.
Just wanted to update you that I discovered today through OW's facebook and she is engaged to xh. I should never have looked. First time I've done it even though I found her on my former stepson's FB page a long long time ago.
I guess all the stuff I read about relationships based on cheating never last much past two years, they never marry the OW, they will never trust each other, how can it last when she knows he cheats, etc. don't apply to my situation.
She wrote that she is deeply in love with her beautiful boyfriend.
It's all too much and I feel like I am back at the beginning again. I just don't understand how he can move on so easily, so happily, while I am still 'here' in this awful place.