Well I spent the X-mas holiday with my children at my mothers sans the WAW. It was actually a very nice holiday and being away from the negativity was nice as well. I'm not sure how my WAW handled not being with the S3&D3 for the first time on X-mas but somehow I don't think it was such a big deal to her. She is in such an affair fog that little else seems to matter.
I have scheduled our first session with Mediation on the 31st and I just got off the phone with my attorney and she told me that I will be responible for the entire mortgage and up keep of our current residence once my wife moves out. I couldn't believe it.
She has an affair, files for divorce moves out and I am left holding the bag on the entire mortgage etc. She is not required to pay anything. WTF. My attorney is suggesting that I get her to agree to stay in the house until we can sell it. That is likely to be a tall order given her current mindset with the A. I intentionally scheduled our first Mediation session on New Years eve day to give her something to think about as I am convinced the OM is flying in for a rendevous.
Things are about to get frisky on a legal/financial level. Man I can't tell you how surreal this all is.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)