Hope and heartache

[ClingingToHope]

Steve, I'm not arguing. I'm asking. No one on here has THE answer. It's different in every situation.

At this point, wouldn't it be better for me to just file for D and seek joint physical custody? Then I wouldn't have to write this big fat check every two weeks since she outearns me. And then she'd see the full consequences of her actions.

Sandi chimed in a couple of weeks ago on the "just move home" thing and based on her experience it would probably cause W to absolutely hate my guts. Her opinion was to do it if I couldn't hack it financially on my own. That's not the case.