It is so frustrating to me to know that me and my W have a good foundation to rebuild a M on and that it is hindered by her inability to put the work in at this point.
So you take up the whole page talking about your inability to even get past the bomb-day status, but at the end of it....you are mad at her and blaming her inability to put the work into it???
You know what ticks me of? The fact a woman will "put work into it" for years and then when she finally is done with it, the H gets frustrated when it's not fixed in a short time frame and then starts to blame her for not putting work into it. Yeah.....go figure!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
