Well, PDT, is it fairly typical for the infidel to not want to work on the M while in the withdrawal phase?

I guess my focus should be GAL and 180s. I think I should articulate my 180s, focus on healing, and read The Art of Seduction.

I do think I need to set a boundry about the disprespectful way she talks to me. There have been a couple of instances where she used an angry tone toward me in front of the kids. She is testing me. Both times I calmly told her that "I deserve to be talked to better particullarly in front of the kids." I think I need to restate this to her in boundry form. I should likely do this when she is off-guard. Good idea?