I know how you feel, as most others do here too, and was hoping my light post would come across at least somewhat funny to you along the way.. Don't forget the message in the post though, you should have her contacting you when things go wrong, if you ever want to be the lead in this, etc. That is not likely to happen at this point in your sitch, but you should be aware of it.
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Now she sent me a text asking how the interview went this morning. I haven't yet responded and don't know how I will respond.
This is my 2 cents, and not sure if it's the best DB or not, but I would wait at least 2 hours from getting that txt.
Then, if your reply at all, and I don't care if you bombed the interview, got arrested for trespassing during it, threw up on the interviewer, spilled your coffee on the receptionist.......Well, you get the picture, at most I would reply with:
"It went well, thanks!"
And that is absolutely it! You want mystery to be on your side, you her to wonder what is happening with YOU, not vice versa.
Make sense?
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."