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Update: I would like to say yesterday was a very good day, but I know better than to trust the signs. There was no anger that I sensed yesterday, so either she was trying or acting. We all hung out in the house most the day. I did a lot of my own thing and just routinely checked in on W and kids and helped out with a few things she was looking at. I made coffee and took W a cup which got a surprising response: "thank you, I really appreciate that"

Later in the day, I was in the basement with one of the children and sent text as to dinner plans which led to a fun/flirtatious discussion on texting.

The whole family went out to dinner, kids went to bed, W and I watched a movie in bed before going to sleep.

Before the movie she asked me how was today for you. I said good. I asked her the same question and she said good, said she enjoyed hanging out with the girls and enjoyed our bantering/talking back . I didn't really push or ask much, she wasn't offering up a ton. She comment that I might not have noticed but that she had left her computer and phone out of the room while we watched a movie that she was trying to do better. I told her i did notice and appreciate.

I still wonder if she is or is going to strike up e-mail contact or possibly a pay as you go phone or a work phone call. One thing she did say to me that was pretty odd, was that she suspects at some point the OM is going to think this is all too silly and call her at work and that if he did, she would be sure to tell me.

We are talking about going skiing together for a day this week. I asked if she wanted to spend the night and she said no.

I have no idea at this point if she is trying or acting or...