Ask the other ladies here what they would give to hear that from their H's lips?
C'mon... go ahead... ask them... I dare you!
Luv, I know you didn't ask, but...I would give anything for H to in some way, shape, or form acknowledge me. Just a small conversation would be nice, let alone a movie or dinner. Count your blessing no matter how small.
G is right. The small gestures that your H has recently made were very difficult for him. I am not surprised that he pulled back. I am not condoning his behavior either, just trying to point out that this is hard on him.
With that said, your hurt is real too. Hang in there.
BTW, I am glad someone is getting some, regardless of who initiated it.
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Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning