.... In the end, she wants to pursue the person she wants to be with, she was pursuing the OM and you were pursuing her, put the brakes on that, you move in the opposite direction, you will never get her if you are chasing her...
I agree completely. You will need to be very aware of what you are projecting. Shift you focus off of wife and onto you. Work on flirting and seducing other women. Their walls are not as strong as WAS. Maintain your boundaries while doing this.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712