Your financial hit = temporary. You'll bounce back. FWIW ~~~ I don't think it will come to that. I'm thinking the D process is going to wake her up. I just do.
Greek
Greek, I know I will bounce back much quicker than she. I recall reading a paper about this very topic where some people had gathered statistics on D, and one of their conclusions was what you stated.
I want to believe it will not come to D, but I'm a bit gun shy on placing hope she will come back. You could be right, and that would be what I prefer.
I spent the morning running calculations on child support, and, it isn't nearly as bad as I had presumed. And these are rough numbers.
Something about taking some action to figure this stuff out that makes me feel a little more in control.
