Those are some good points in your post above, and you acknowledging them is great!

Personally, I think many of us think that seeking 'help' is a sign of weakness, but I believe it is a sign of strength!

You now know some things Bunny needs and wants, and that is a huge step forward!

M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."