What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Thanks guys for all the help and encouragement. I know the game plan now. Robx, yeah Ive let her push me around too much in the past. I was just complacent, a "don't rock the boat" attitude. I have read the right books and your long winded posts. Thanks for taking the time on those. I can take a hint.

OP thanks for the links. The first one from Livestrong applies well.

Wonderful, we will continue to work in tandem as kindred spirits. Good luck with your efforts.

R2C, I am reading those sections and will start applying them. I am detaching and I might even try to make separate New Years eve plans. I will try more to be mysterious. The counter-intuitive approach works. It drives her crazy. I know that I can seduce this victim..just like Valmont...