Need Some Qwik Advice

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She did throw the - " You said I could talk to him" @ me.

I said" Please repeat the WHOLE statement for me b/c what I said was- It ends now, somewhere down the road if you bump into him or talk to him I could probably get past it, that's not now."

She also said that the S with him was actually the LOW point in the relationship!

Well, Sandi makes a good point about this and I now think she is correct. If you leave any loophole available for contact with OM, the WAW will use it to get a fix. Sounds like what your W did. The spirit of your boundary was clear, IMO, but yeah...if there was a loophole, she found it and took advantage. She's not ready to work on the M apparently. Time for tough love, OB.
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