Ok. So what do I do here? How do I take control over the marriage? She still doen't want to work on MR. She wants to sell the house and live seperately so she can work on her own issues(So she says). Interesting, that our S cannot be put on a strict timeline in her fantasy land, isn't it? She is in that withdrawal stage that you told me about. She's basically wacko. I expect, perhaps unrealistically, her to come through the withdrawal and then start to show some intestest in our M. I mean, she lost interest in working on our M at preciely the same time she got involved with OM. Of course, she may simply resume the A.
