I have reviewed emails, facebook(she doen't know this one), webrowser, and telephone. I have also kept sureptitious tabs on her whereabouts. In the last couple of weeks she hasn't had any opportunities to see him. If I even suspected contact(and my eyes are wide open now) I would have exposed it. I have no fear of doing so and she knows it. Also, there is her behavior. She is miserable. If she was seeing him, she would be much, much happier.