I guess I don't want to bug her, or anyone else for that matter-
I was afraid that would be you answer, and it's indicative of you being in an emotionally abusive relationship. Your not bugging your IC, nor anyone else, especially here! Your IC is there for you, and you need to understand you are as important as everyone else your IC works with, and also just as important as your IC themselves! It's time to put Bunny first! You deserve it!
I agree with iwitw. Call your IC. Remind him/her of being on cancellation list. Tell him/her new developments make three/four weeks out "uacceptable". Say that at this point in your sitch you need weekly visits. Some ICs will provide telephone sessions when necessary. I know it would be hard to start from scratch, but maybe a new IC is in order if this one can only give you only less than monthly visits. If you don't get any cooperation re: moving up this app't. and/or increasing the frequency of sessions, ask IC for recommendations for a new IC. Maybe that will get him/her to be more accommodating.
Besides, do I recall you being less than satisfied with IC; saying, in effect, that IC "doesn't get it", or was that MC?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
