This might be true for a "regular" guy, but my H does not have the jealousy or insecurity wiring. I doubt that his interest is in what I am doing.
I disagree. When reading your descriptions about him asking questions about you and dating other people and saying your body is showing signs of "having a man" (love it, by the way, so funny!), I imagine him as very jealous underneath this exterior of acting "curious."
Trust me. He is thinking about it.
He's a body language kind of guy. Every time I moved my body in the slightest bit, he commented on it. I looked down to the left, and he told me what that meant. lol
I couldn't look him in the eye because I would have died laughing.
He even asked is his name John? Paul?, etc. to see if I would react. I know I was reacting guiltily because it was insanity.
The only thing I did confirm was the name of the base, because he had clearly researched bases in the area and asked me directly.