One would have to think that by now he would know that you are going to keep the kids safe. Again, if he thinks differently, anything you say isn't going to make any difference!
Exactamundo! This is part of why I am cheesed off. I am a good mother. I have never put them at risk, and I wouldn't start doing it now. He knows better. He is being an ass implying otherwise.
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
What you are doing (in his imagination) has him bothered a bit. At this point, I think that's a good thing. He's losing a little bit of control of the picture he has in his head. I like it!
What am I doing so I can do more of it?! lol This all started when S5 asked if he was still here?" I replied, yes. H (we were on the phone), said tell him I'll see him in a few days. I said to H, he wasn't talking about you. H made the leap in logic that I had a man over. I did, but it was my brother that S5 was talking about.
A few days later, I asked H if he minded if I took the kids out of town. He usually doesn't, and he said yes. Later, he told me he wasn't comfortable with me taking the kids to some other guys house. At this point, it still hasn't dawned on me that he thinks I have a man.
Days later, when he starts sending the relentless emails, I realize he thinks I am taking the kids around some other guy. He points out how I said he couldn't have random people around the kids. I said it, because I didn't want my girls spending the night around random drunk men he was hanging out with. So I respond, "as long as you keep the girls safe, you can do whatever you want". Which is honestly how I feel. I was being petty before, and I know he wouldn't jeopardize them. So he says, I am now changing the rules and I can't do that.
