i guess i just need support because everything i need to do is against what is normal to want to do..
Yes it is counterintuitive but it is what must be done. Believe in it!
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is there the slightest chance he will even think about the converstion that took place yesterday?
Are you asking me what is going on in his head? Think about the question. He doesn't know what is going on in his head. Certainly I don't and you don't.
In MLC don't believe what you hear, sound familiar. and 50% of what you see.
However actions will speak louder than words. When his actions start to change you can believe half of it. Wait, for that, patience. I know that it is hard.
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especially when depression and all is so much a factor...nothing is rational
Yes, nothing is rational with depression.
He needs to look in the mirror and fix himself. Just like you. If not you will just go back and repeat what you have already done. I am sure you don't want that to happen. You can't tell him he needs to do this. He needs to figure it out on his own!
