Glad you got an agreement for the weekly support. That's a relief. How're you going to do the dark NC while having kids? I'd like to know more about your outline for how he can contact the kids. Sounds like something I should do. I feel I've let WAH have me at his mercy for when he visits the kids. I like your plan.
I am not sure yet - usually he would text me once a week for the kids to call him(it's cheaper as we have the landline and he has the mobile phone) - I am trying to go around that now as I don't want any texts from him anymore.By the way he changed the mobile phone provider as the bills were so high – I would have had a different suggestion to lower them lol We had agreed on a weekly sum for me to take out of the joint account - so I still have my debit card I just don't want to use it anynmore – that’s why I set up the standing order – just don’t know what to do about the mortgage – I haven’t set up a direct debit so we are more flexible but I don’t want to end up every month having to ask him if it’s ok to take it. Haven’t figured that out yet. I just want my peace – that’s all.
