Help, I just got off the phone with my W. She tried talking about not going to lunch when we get back. She wanted to talk about how my apartment hunt was going. I just tried to stay calm and say that it was part of my life now and that I thanked her for her concern but I have it handled. I am so sad. She sounds so hurt on the phone and it feels like I am hurting her again. How does detachment work? I have been reading DB and DR but just need the lines connected, please.


"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others."
Solomon Ibn Gabriol