It sounds like a normal albeit strained R. Keep working at it on your side, you can't really influence how he acts.
He is making an effort to put you at ease, that is positive. You feel he is still hiding things, that is normal given the past. That trust is not going to be easy to rebuild.
The amount of time this will take is immeasurable. Frankly, it will be a lifelong process. As long as you are prepared for that, you're golden. M is always a lifelong process of growth, pain, discovery, and hiccups interspersed with happiness, joy, and love.
Love you K! Hugs to you and your precious children.
How did your daughter's party go?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
