No she did not come over for Christmas day. However, her tradition this time of year is to open presents on Christmas Eve so she had the kids then. Still, our tradtion has been Christmas day so I felt her actions were wrong.
The kids are 6 and 8 and they have been incredible during all of this. They are loved by a lot of people so they still seem chipper and happy.
I spend more time with the kids than she so when the OM comes into play I suspect this will impact them. The OM factor and the kids is causing great conflict right now. I want it to happen to get it over with so I can start dealing with it. On the other hand I do not want him coming near my kids. I am sure he is a nice guy but what he represents is disgusitng. When it does happen my only plan is to make sure he is not anywhere around when I am around.
