I have a few questions for the separation. I want to set some ground rules. Do we date other people during this time. (it has already been brought up. She is good with either one, or the other.) I prefer no.
Definitely set ground rules for the separation. If you prefer NOT to date other people during this time, you need to tell her that so she can respect that.
Did all of this come out of thin air or has she been distant for awhile? Have you guys been fighting a lot? Spending time together before the bomb? Before I left my H we were spending next to no time together. A woman's sexual attraction tends to be very emoetionally based. So if you guys were fighting a lot before, that could be the reason she has distanced herself. And as someone on here always states (can't remember who), if a woman doesn't respect you, there will be no sex. And that's true.
