I need input from my fellow DBers. My H wants contact, attention, etc., but that goes against all the DB principles. Also, if I detach, he will most likely give up. Any suggestions? He is in love with a fantasy, but to him she was reality. Their relationship was built on lies and she dumped him at the first sign of a problem, but he still wants and misses her. What do I do? My faith and hope are dwindling.
Me - Faithful wife H - WAH Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year Both in our early 40's M - 16 years w/ no kids T - 21 years Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother
