Your sitch sounds alot like mine did in the beginning. My H had an OW and she was very insecure in their relationship to the point she would email and text me and ask if anything was going on with us!

Just be careful and keep your expectations at zero, like snodderly said....as soon as you get your hopes up he could go back into the fog. It happened to me dozens of times with my H. It took 2 years to get the OW out of the picture.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10