I posted this on the MLC board and I will post it here also.

Here are the links for the articles on detachment

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

This one is for men but I think it still applies.

http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/the-no-contact-rule-committing-to-it-and-making-it-work/

Me-70, D37,S36