A week or so prior to Christmas I had told the W the kids would be available to see her on Christmas day if she wanted. She told me she would think about it but that she did not want to make any concrete plans. In any case, I did not pursue the issue. She called that day but that was it. I do not know how she does it.
So did she come over our did she even see the kids? I have a similar sitch and will post new thread here today but have been reading yours and others sitch's this forum. How old are your kids? How did they feel about Christmas Day?
I am sorry you are having a rough time, the Holidays do suck for us LBS's. Hang in there.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
