Nothing and everything. She hasn't nagged me about money -- especially lately. She hasn't nagged me about time off work for kids since we had a blowout about it in October I think. I'd have to look it up.
A couple people have said I could simply tell her I'm moving home in January, but to be prepared to start WWIII and end any chance of an R or an M by doing so.
Actually my W filed back in March of 2009. We have been through 2 rounds of mediation and are as close as you can be to getting the big D. We have a court date scheduled for the second week of January.
Interesting enough everything that has happened with the D proceedings sense March has been because I pushed it. She doesn't do anything unless she gets mad at me or we have a disagreement. Talk about holding a gun to someones head.
In the mean time she gets to have her family, best friend, and freedom to come and go as she pleases. All the good with none of the commitment. I've tried to walk away but she has a way of pulling me back. That stops today.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
