Going straight forward...antlers 5th thread.

[sandi2]

Hi friend. If I could choose one person to grant a year of peace & happiness to.....it would be you. I mean that sincerly. It warms my heart to see the turn-around you've made in your life. And, when a lot of people would have said good-bye to the board, you have hung in here to help so many people.

I'm glad you age moving over to that other forum b/c I can still find ya (lol), but if the traffice is too slow for you....promise you will come back here?

The last time I asked you to check in on a newcomer, you did. You knew just how to respond to his post. Well, I am asking again if you will check another Newcomer. His post is "Weelherewego" by Stillinpain. It is kind of hard to read, but I don't feel that I know what to say to him, and I think he probably needs some guidance pretty quickly. He's just got out of being in jail for 8 months and come home to see just how bad things had gotten while he was gone.

So would you just take a look at his post and see if you can offer him anything? He has just started and has only one post, so far. I know I come looking for you for the "toughie's" but that b/c I know you can handle the,/

[antlers]

Hi friend. If I could choose one person to grant a year of peace & happiness to.....it would be you. I mean that sincerly. It warms my heart to see the turn-around you've made in your life.

Thank you sandi. And thank you for your interest in me, and the help you've given me.

[Gardener]

Antlers,

Well, I tried as hard as I could...but I wasn't able to save the marriage. Maybe there was too much damage done to the relationship. I don't know.

But I'm moving myself to the Surviving the Big D section of this board. I appreciate ALL of the responses that I've received since I've been here.

God bless.

Ditto, friend. See you there in a few weeks.

And ain't this great?[

And I'm feeling OK right now

All the above a testament to your difficult and sincere efforts.

Thanks for everything.

[givingitmyall]

Antlers,

Well, I tried as hard as I could...but I wasn't able to save the marriage. Maybe there was too much damage done to the relationship. I don't know.

But I'm moving myself to the Surviving the Big D section of this board. I appreciate ALL of the responses that I've received since I've been here.

God bless.

Ditto, friend. See you there in a few weeks.

And ain't this great?[

And I'm feeling OK right now

All the above a testament to your difficult and sincere efforts.

Thanks for everything.

You guys save a seat for me over there, ok? I'll be there pretty soon.

[antlers]

Antlers,

Well, I tried as hard as I could...but I wasn't able to save the marriage. Maybe there was too much damage done to the relationship. I don't know.

But I'm moving myself to the Surviving the Big D section of this board. I appreciate ALL of the responses that I've received since I've been here.

God bless.

Ditto, friend. See you there in a few weeks.

And ain't this great?[

And I'm feeling OK right now

All the above a testament to your difficult and sincere efforts.

Thanks for everything.

Thank You Gardener.
And Thank You for the posts you've made to me in newcomers.

[antlers]

Antlers,

Well, I tried as hard as I could...but I wasn't able to save the marriage. Maybe there was too much damage done to the relationship. I don't know.

But I'm moving myself to the Surviving the Big D section of this board. I appreciate ALL of the responses that I've received since I've been here.

God bless.

Ditto, friend. See you there in a few weeks.

And ain't this great?[

And I'm feeling OK right now

All the above a testament to your difficult and sincere efforts.

Thanks for everything.

You guys save a seat for me over there, ok? I'll be there pretty soon.

There's room GIMA. Hopefully we can all help and be supportive of one another. And Thank You for the posts you've made to me in newcomers.

[C-Bart]

I'm not to far behind you guys. CYA on the other side.

[TulsaTime]

Antlers,

I'll be checking you out on the other side as well. 21st of January. I read smart cookies thread tonight. This is the pain we put our spouses through. Like you, I am to blame for my situation. I will read that post over and over when I start to act like the victim and start blaming her for this. It will take alot of time for her pain to heal and I want to be there as much as I am able to do what I can.

I will have contact with my wife for a long time because of the kids. I tell myself and my God that I will continue to grow and change and continue to love and support her so she can soar. I will be the kind of man I want my daughters to marry someday.

Take care and may God direct your steps and mine from here on out.

[sandi2]

Happy New Year, Antlers!

[antlers]

Thanks Tulsa Time. It's OK to be realistic, but it's not OK to indulge ourselves in remorse...just a reminder. I hope 2010 is good for you.