My MLC H seems to be coming around more after our separation two months ago. For example, he spent time at our home yesterday although he doesn't live there and we have been out to dinner two nights in a row. I've also been doing the 180's and LRT and he's calling more and more every day.
However, the OW is still hot and heavy in the picture. He's spending the night with her about every night. His current accomodations at a buddy's will be unavailable by New Year's Eve and he says he "can't and doesn't want" to move in with her. How is everyone dealing with being a friend even though there is an OP involved? Harder to deal with for me as my "old H" is appearing more and more lately, yet she is still around. Any advice or coping techniques or how to handle him coming around more?
