I'm not sure I can do the 'single' thing though, after 23 years this is what I am.
Surely you have some identification that says who you are as an individual other than you are Ms. Blowaway's H. What would you be if she were not a part of your life? That is what I meant by thinking like a single man. All your thoughts are consumed by her. If she was not here, what would your thoughts be on?
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She had previously told me that she had had 'heaps of offers' from guys since our S. I asked if they were local, she replied that she knew heaps of guys in <big town>
This is almost funny (if it wasn't so sad). Why is she informing you about how many guys want to be with her? My next question is how did you respond to what she said?
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It's quite possible that this is completely innocent
Come on, you are fooling yourself. Didn't you say that it took her only 30 min. to hook up on the Internet with the OM she's having an EA with? There is nothing innoncent about an EA and when she's addicted to those EA chemicals, then it doesn't really matter if it is that OM or if she finds one to replace him. It's the "feeling" she is after. It's how those chemicals make her feel. You need to read up about it on the Internet.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
