wifeleft2009,

I had the same thoughts as you initially.

I have struggled with this for some time because an OM would be the only logical reason. She never explained to me what "fell out of love with you" meant. Too simplistic an answer for me.

But I think she just fits the bill of a typical WAW and even MLC wife so I hope that an OM is not in the picture as this would complicate things more for us. Tried to get her to see docter and MC but she refuses. Tells me her mind is made up.

The other reason I am so concerned with a possible OM is because this would be the "deal breaker" for me in any future reconciliation.

An OM would be devastating to me since the past 10 years of our marriage there has been little to no intimacy and LM on her part.

Only real thing that I suspect is a possible EA with one of her old HS boyfriends 300 miles away. Did I mention that I hate facebook?

Im still searching for answeres but I hate to snoop.


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me