Thanks Grace, for those of you who think that your kids will never see the whole picture and understand who the parent is who is safe, secure, and stable, it does turn around. I am not perfect, but I am not in the throes of self-centeredness.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11