well, I guess I just went in with the thought why else leave?? hate to break it to you but I would have to say from what ive seen... most likely there is OM I know you dont want to hear it but lets face it odds are there is.
take it in breath get as used to the idea as you can and just know she is her own person and will do what she wants with who she wants... as much as this is against the promise she made its the fact with most M out there now days people stray there is no shame or honor left...
on the plus side you have alot of history and if you keep your cool and DB your chances are very good at being happy with however this runs its course
keeping calm and doing a gread DB will show everyone including yourself who the better person was in your M
