What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Ready2Change]

"There is a natural tendency in relationships for people to become so familiar with one another that boredom and stagnation set in. Mystery is the lifeblood of seduction and to maintain it you have to constantly surprise your victims, stir things up, even shock them." - P163 Art of seduction

Your spouse "knows" you better than anyone else on this planet. It is now your job to make her question everything she knows about you. You do this by 180's and being mysterious, changing your looks, the way you dress, the way you interact with her. The time of day you get home, when you leave. Your sudden interest in other women (or vise versa).