I need to give credit where credit is due. My post that you referenced above stemmed from the writings of a WAW, Smartcookie . I just re-interpreted it to what I thought my H may have possibly felt. It was very eye-opening for me too. I was too busy worrying about me to even step outside the box and look at things from his perspective.
I don't know your sitch, but will be catching up on it soon.
Hang in there LFA.
(((hugs)))
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning