"The conflict I have is logic (she isn't coming back and any nice behavior from her is b/c she wants to feel better or just get along until D is finished) v. emotion (she is acting nicely, so maybe this might be a sign). So far, logic is winning."
I have the same thing going on in my situation. It drives me insanely crazy thinking about it. When the "logic" is driving my thinking, I moving fast forward with filing for the divorce. When the "emotion" is driving my thinking, I wonder if I've been lovingly patient enough with my wife. It's a butt-kicker for sure. In both of our cases, the "emotion" can be ratified by our wives simply saying "I want to work on our marriage"...but they don't. This is why I'm moving forward with my life.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
