Greek, the thought is to reach as many agreements as possible v. lawyering up off the bat, which means WAY more expense.
Makes sense.
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Also, I suspect what she thinks hte D will look like v. what I will agree to are two, very different, things. It's an opportunity to bring more reality her way. I'm listening if you feel strongly otherwise.
But I think this is where it may get hairy. Talk w/ Coach tomorrow if you get a chance about this. Back in our time he kept almost everything very close to the vest which kept me off balance. The couple of times that we did try to talk about the legal issues face to face were...disasters. Very ugly. Very personal. Very unproductive. I know you are a lawyer and surely know more than the average bear about how to navigate these waters. But your emotions about this particular case will interfere with your objectivity.
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he kept almost everything very close to the vest which kept me off balance. The couple of times that we did try to talk about the legal issues face to face were...disasters. Very ugly. Very personal. Very unproductive. I know you are a lawyer and surely know more than the average bear about how to navigate these waters. But your emotions about this particular case will interfere with your objectivity. 