I'm glad you had a pleasant Christmas eve. Look after and enjoy yourself with your brother.
Thanks G. It is true that I had a good Christmas.
The brother thing . . . (disinformation) was to keep H away. I figured my big brother would ward off a wayward husband, much as holy water wards off vampires.
I'm doing fine. No word from H in 2 1/2 weeks, which is a record. It's very peaceful.
I'm getting more of my stuff moved to my apartment, but I am still living at the marital home with my step-dog.
My apartment needed some electrical work done earlier this week and the electrician was quite handsome. I definitely felt a current. He asked if he could call me sometime and maybe we could have coffee. I told him I'd like that. *Sigh*. It sure feels good to be noticed again, and be able to say yes.
My apartment needed some electrical work done earlier this week and the electrician was quite handsome. I definitely felt a current. He asked if he could call me sometime and maybe we could have coffee. I told him I'd like that. *Sigh*. It sure feels good to be noticed again, and be able to say yes.
Yes, it does! Remember what I told you about your appearance? Living proof!
I haven't posted in a while because not much is happening. H still in europe. I ignored a couple emails he sent which required no reply. Then, I had to email him because his credit card was expiring the end of January and I was getting notices for lots of things that were on auto-pay which would soon stop without the new info. (some of these expenses affect me also).
He seemed very happy to hear from me after a month of silence on my end. Seems he had been wondering what was going on.
I had offered to send him the card that came in the mail for him but he said he would have one delivered to him there. That was late January.
Then the late notices start coming to my email (because I take care of setting that up & paying the bills). I tried to email him but his mailbox was full.
Then today he left a phone message for me saying he needed his bank account # to activate his card and asked me to email it to him. Well, I couldn't and again, he does not give me his phone number. And that's what bugs me.
On the one hand, I could just email him the info when his mailbox clears, but it bugs me that he calls me when he needs something, but I can't call him. Well, I do have a number where he is staying which I have had for years, but H didn't give me the cell # he has now and he didn't ask me to call anyway.
So I am wondering if I should say something about this, or if it is too trivial to bother with. I know it's a small thing, but sometimes the small things can set the tone for everything.
As hard as this is for you there is going to have to come a time when you stop playing mother-hen (aka female Knight in Shining Armor) and let him start to stew in his own crap.
You have your own place right? If you continue letting this child run around on his escapades and keep cleaning his mess up after him... when do you expect him to come and face the consequences of his actions?
I hope that you have taken care of the dental work.
It's good to know you're still alive and kicking. I've seen your posts on some other people's thread.
(((( Dudess ))))
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
