Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

Thanks cutter for the nice pat on the back! I'm feeling strong even after the nasty exchange w WAH.

I think of him possibly filing this week... I can't see my L until the 4th. I don't know if he can get it done this week or if he was bluffing.

WAH TM'd D yesterday asking if she wanted to see her cousins today and he'd take her. D didn't reply and she hasn't heard anymore from him. She said she didn't want to see him and his message "sounded weird". Mind reading here... he probably is testing to see if I told them about OW. They've known for a couple weeks. His behavior towards them has really killed their respect for him--they've cried too much lately because of his meanness towards them in person or on the phone.

I need to square away my plans for NYE. I was invited to a party where I can take the kids. I don't want to contact him, but after the probs with Xmas eve, I don't want any more hassles from him. He hasn't asked for contact with them lately but to harass me, he'll probably ask to have them NYE. S said he's taking him to a basketball game on NY day. I wasn't informed of that by WAH.

Had a good day today. Spent time with my parents, my girl friend and kids. Also saw The Ugly Truth movie. Kinda made me think of DBing... about 180s to attract a man.