WAW is mind reading again and "regardless of what you think of me, we still need to communicate."
Funny how the last six months she was in our house, I asked and pleaded with her to read Love Talks book and do the workbooks together.
NOW, we should "communicate?"
My not initiating any conversations and answering as succinctly as possible when I have to answer is really putting her off.
I am only about business with her and she hates it. She said "thank you for the (Christmas gift from my boys) calendar, it's so thoughtful, <on and on> ..." I told her "you're welcome."
If I had something I needed to discuss with her, I would schedule a conversation. On Dec 18, I did just that. We spoke on the phone for about 20 minutes. I was calm and businesslike the entire time.
I am certain she is not coming back. Why am I DBing and posting here?
I don't want a divorce, but I have detached and moved on.
My boys deserve better than what they have received with this separation and will get in the future with a divorce.
