LR - thank you. I will check up on your thread. Well H has been out of our house for seven months. We just started MC. We are closer than before, but yes, it's not the rush to romance I dream of. Slow and painful is a good description. H still has his apt. but he is here 3-4 nights per week and this week has been here all week. The past month or so, he has been showing up more often = not overnight, but to hang out with family. He has talked about going on a vacation with us, but has waffled...
I am still waiting for him to want to spend more time with me alone without S. However, this week, he and I went out on our first "date" and watched a movie at home for the first time in many months.
Feels like piecing, seems to be, although I keep R talks to MC only. But in my gut, I do feel there is movement toward us/ me again.
May I ask you - what did you do to encourage H to come back, start spending time together again, move back home? I'm wondering how to do it without pursuing, pushing, but I don't want to wait forever!~
