No mind reading allowed here! So, I guess that his phone is working now?
Lots of us are here after thinking "Well, if H would have just told me how unhappy he was" It seems like a pretty common character flaw, their job was to stop and sit us down and tell us what they needed, that they were unhappy, no just walk out.
Have you read DB/DR? This is just the last resort technique. Its out there now, and you will have your answer. Even if its not necessarily what you would like, it will at least free you up to pursue your future with those babies.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...