Thank you, WL for the positive thinking. I just figured I would have bigger clues or a conversation from him to discuss our future if he wants to R.
Cutter, yes, YOU ARE PSYCHIC! haha I am thinking of cutting him off. I just will need to really figure out pros and cons and logistics and would love the support and advice from the forum to help me. I'll write more explanation later.
He came back from his mom's with some gifts for me from my MIL and SIL. It was very nice! I did kind of kick him out the door when he was on his way, saying I needed to get going with mopping and couldn't do it when they were here. I was also preserving my emotions and knew I would crack if he was there one fing minute longer!!
I was calm and pleasant when they returned, though.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004