Looking for Advice

[Greek]

Greek, if I had not experienced having the EA, I would never believe some of this stuff, but sadly, it is true. I don't want Gutw'ing to set himself up for disappointment by being too trusting.

I appreciate what you said about your children. Different people do act in different ways when they are caught, and I sincerely hope I am wrong about this one, but "usually" she will try to keep the EA or find another man b/c she is addicted. If one of your children were on drugs (God forbid) and got busted....he/she may be sorry and may even make promises....but when that craving kicked in, they would start looking for some way to get a fix. Getting caught isn't enough. That's why there has to be some sort of long term plan. Talking is a good place to start, but I just don't think she is sincere right now. She's still fighting him about OM.

Putting it that way, Sandi, makes perfect sense to me. I understand now why you suggested Gutw'ing's W might be going deeper undercover. I understand this better now.

For Gutw'ing's sake, I sure hope you're wrong, though. But I'm glad you're here to keep him mindful

Cheers ~
Greek