No expectations! Maybe this will be the impetus for him to finally make the change- maybe not. But you told him what you needed from him, very clearly this time, and he can do what he will with it, and I think that it was important for a lot of the things that you told him to come out.
Once you get to the point where you are done trying, is often when they will pick up. And if not, well, you know that you have done all you can. And I think thats important for our recovery process, I know that it was important for my recovery.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
